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Chapter 25, The Philosophy of Marriage

Just a few days after New Year's Day in 1979, Nan Yi saw Du Qiu style windbreaker in Beijing University, and also saw someone wearing toad glasses with the labels on the lenses not yet removed.

This label cannot be removed, as it will lose value immediately.

I went to the messenger room and picked up the telegram from Wenchangwei. There were seven words in total: one end, three end, two hundred and two.

One, two and three represent windbreakers, scarves, and toad glasses respectively. The telegram means that one hundred and twenty scarves have not been sold, and all the others have been sold out.

A very good result. Nan Yi set the price of the scarf very high, and only 120 was left unsold. This is already a very good result.

Nan Yi ran to the post and telecommunications office and sent a telegram: Send it to me, please install the phone quickly!

Nanyi has omitted the word "give" in the middle. It costs seven cents a word to send a telegram, so you can save a little bit.

On Xu Qian's side, Nan Yi once again missed the appointment and didn't accompany her to see "In the Silent Place" at all.

After sending the telegram and returning to school, she bumped into him again. In order to escape, Nan Yi had no choice but to agree to accompany her to watch "The Hunt" on the weekends.

Time is a very strange thing. When you want it to go fast, it will slow down; when you want it to go slow, it will walk with the wind.

Nanyi once tried to negotiate with it and let it control the pace according to its own needs.

It's a pity that no matter whether he is coercing or luring him, time is not on his side.

It is still so aloof, walking as fast as it wants and as slowly as it wants, without flattery or mercy.

On the third day after making an appointment with Xu Qian, the weekend came again.

The two of them made an appointment in the afternoon, and in the morning, Nan Yi had to go to the depths of the flowers, first to wait for Men San'er, and second to see Nan Ruobin.

As the exam was approaching, everyone was busy reviewing, and neither Lai Biao nor Liu Zhen wanted to follow. This also saved Nan Yi's brain cells from thinking of excuses not to let them follow.

It was freezing cold and there was no heating. There were two coal stoves in the room. Nan Ruoping also carried a hand stove in her hand. It was made of copper. It was an object from the Qing Dynasty and could be considered an antique.

There is a copy of "Andersen's Fairy Tales" on the table. It has not been beautified. The older you are and the more experienced you are, the darker the version becomes.

The world is absurd, and the same people work hard to weave a dream world for children. But after the children lose their qualifications for Children's Day, they whip them with whips and smash the fairy tales they have weaved with their own hands.

Nan Yi hopes that Nan Ruobin will be exposed to the real world from the beginning, instead of wrapping chicken shit in colorful sugar coating to trick her.

If a blind man remains blind, his ears will be forced to become very sensitive; if he is allowed to regain his sight for an hour at random intervals, then his whole life will be spent in panic waiting for this hour that comes by chance.

Nan Yi took a small hammer and pounded the walnuts on the side. He cracked the walnuts, broke them with his hands, wiped the crumbs into the dustpan at his feet, picked up the pieces of meat, and put them in the snack box.

inside.

When it's time to turn a page, Nan Ruobing's hand will leave the hand stove, turn the book, then twist a handful of walnut meat and stuff it into her mouth, click, click, click.

Others are red sleeves that add fragrance, while Nan Ruobing is the handsome man who knocks the core.

"Master Nan, Master Nan."

"Here, East Room."

Men San'er opened the thick wind curtain and walked in. The two pockets of his yellow military coat were bulging, and he was holding a can of Coca-Cola in his hand, with white mist still rising from the mouth of the bottle.

"Master Nan, I can tell you seriously today that Laoshan Cola is indeed not as delicious as Coca-Cola. You should try it too."

With that said, Men San'er took out two cans of Coke from his coat pocket.

“Did you buy it from a foreign hotel or a tourist store?”

The reason why Nanyi asked this is because now there are only two places where you can buy Coca-Cola.

In 1972, Coca-Cola returned to the mainland to establish an office. It took seven years before it signed an agreement with COFCO a few days ago and was allowed to sell Coca-Cola to the mainland. For the time being, Coca-Cola was shipped from abroad and COFCO sold it on behalf of the mainland.

"I bought it in the hotel, okay. I saw a lot of cool people buying it there."

"Hey, you still know how to act like a coward like this. It's two dollars and a half for a can. You can drink such expensive stuff without fear of thunder."

"Hey, what does this mean? Aren't we all open to drink the eight-yuan Maotai? Speaking of Maotai, I also heard some rumors that it is going to increase the capital again, not all, but only the outstanding ones recommended by everyone.

Workers tune.

I plan to go around and send a few bottles of wine to the leaders of the bureau, so as to gain a good impression first, so that when the capital transfer really starts, they can think of me."

"Let's take a rest. How much can I adjust? I'll let you drink four cans of Coke a month at most."

"Who thinks it's too much money?"

"That's true!" Nan Yi nodded and said, "I didn't call you today, so you came here just to give me a Coke, right?"

"No, we haven't had dinner together for a long time. I want to invite you to Dong Laishun to cook mutton."

"Okay, no more formalism, just tell me what you have to say."

Nanyi positions Men San'er as a business partner and subordinate. The relationship between the two should be maintained at this level and will not go any further.

It is difficult to switch relationships between people on different occasions.

In the company, you are the subordinate and I am the superior, and you listen to me; at the wine table, you and I are brothers, no distinction is made between superior and inferior, there is no need to argue about anything, we can discuss everything, and we can joke around as we please.

Such an ideal state is unlikely to occur.

Either they turn against each other for profit, or they delay business in order to take care of the brothers' feelings. Especially when both brothers have mothers-in-law, the process of turning against each other will most likely enter the fast lane.

Nan Yi wants to maintain his leadership position. Apart from business and official duties, he should not get too close to Men San'er or get involved in his life.

When Men San'er has a mother-in-law, and let his mother-in-law understand that it was I, Nan Yi, who brought your husband to make a fortune, and that his efforts have been doubled and he has been rewarded, then you should be more at ease with me.

"I have my eye on a honey, and I miss her."

"You just go and take pictures of my mother-in-law. Do you need to tell me?"

"Don't I want you to check it, Mr. Nan?" Men San'er said, scratching his scalp.

"I'm several years younger than you, and I don't understand things about wives. I just want to say that if you are looking for a wife, don't look for someone with a pretty face, look for someone who is virtuous.

The ancients have long said that you should marry a virtuous wife.

As for you, when doing business in the future, you will definitely have to move around a lot, and there will be many drinking establishments. It’s so unavoidable to act in a casual manner, and some things are inevitable.

What's more, as time goes by, you may lose control of your crotch and have to raise a smaller one outside.

Things that you think look good at first will become boring to you after a long time; things that don’t look good at first will become better and better as you look at them.

From an investment point of view, being young and beautiful is the least valuable thing. If it lasts for ten years, it will wither and the return rate will be too low.

So, either find someone who can help you, or find someone who can take good care of you."

"Master Nan, is your statement too realistic? Love shouldn't be like this."

"What should that be like?

love at first sight?

Elope with you?

Love at first sight can be understood as a lack of firmness in thought and will, and being motivated by lust;

She eloped with you and was raised by her parents for more than ten or twenty years. She can ignore her parents' feelings. How high do you think the probability of such a woman will be conscientious with you in the future? "

"Master Nan, according to what you say, there is no good woman in the world."

"How is this possible? There are still many good women, but it's hard to paint a picture of a tiger but paint a picture of its bones. Some people who will become bad people in the future may still be good people now, and they don't know when they will turn bad.

If an orange grows in Huainan, it becomes orange, and if it grows in northern Huaibei, it becomes orange. If the living environment changes, the mentality may also change.

It's okay to fall in love, but don't mention marriage easily if you haven't been together for more than three years. And don't pretend to be someone else when you're in love, someone you can't do, and show your true self.
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