406 It's not too late, it's too late
Secretary Jiang looked at Jin Bao's back as he left and sighed: "This girl is pretty, she has a kind person. Hua Tiancheng is really lucky!"
Then Secretary Jiang took out his cell phone and called the Secretary-General of the Municipal Party Committee: "Secretary General Yang, please inform Deputy Mayor Sun and Deputy Secretary Zhou to come to my office."
In ten minutes, three members of the Standing Committee of the Municipal Party Committee and Municipal Party Committee, who were less than 50 years old, came to Secretary Jiang's lenient office one after another. The three of them already knew the court's trial situation, and all of them were a little nervous.
"You three are all here, let's have a good chat today." After that, Secretary Jiang asked Secretary Li to pour tea for the three Standing Committee members.
"Today I called you three and didn't want to criticize you three. We are all parents, so I want to talk about the education of children. As the saying goes, the faults of children who are not filial to their fathers, especially boys' education, must be arrested from childhood. I am also a son, but I have not spoiled my son. I have asked him to learn to eat by himself since he was over one year old. Although he couldn't hold the spoon and couldn't eat it, I still cruelly let him exercise by himself when he was three years old, so he started to learn to wear clothes by himself. Although the clothes were worn slowly and sometimes the buttons were buttoned wrongly, I have been encouraging him to do it by himself, and his parents would not do it for him.
When he was four or five years old, his socks were dirty, so I asked myself to wash his little clothes. Later, I also taught him to wash his little clothes. He slowly washed all his clothes himself, and I didn’t have time to wash his clothes for him. After he was in the first grade, I picked him up and dropped them off for a while, so I asked him to go home alone, hang the keys around his neck, and let him learn to open the door by himself.
Although I was worried that he was pushed down by other children while taking the bus, I still insisted on letting him go home alone. Some people said that I was too cruel, and the child even let him go home alone. At the beginning, I kept walking not far from the child to stare at him. I was always afraid that he would take the wrong bus and could not go home in time. Once when I arrived at school, he did not see him and there was no sign of him on the platform. I was extremely broken at that time. But when I got home by car, he was already sitting on the sand with a smile and said to me: Mom, I have been back for half an hour, why did you come back? From then on, I felt relieved that the child has returned home by himself.
Children need to exercise their independence from an early age, and it will be too late to exercise when they grow up. If we don’t treat children more ruthlessly from childhood and don’t be able to do their best when they grow up, they will be cruel to us. Children from whom are not rebellious, especially boys are very naughty. My son jumps and jumps every day, making his hands and bodies dirty, but he plays happily. Some people say that boys should be raised in poverty, so that they know that it is not easy to make money, girls should be raised in wealth, and cultivate their noble temperament. Now that my son has grown up, he can do everything, cook and wash clothes, which are the results of my exercise since he was a child.
This year, my son has been admitted to Tsinghua University and is still the president of the student union at the school. If I had not educated him since childhood, would he have the ability now?
If a child grows to the age of sixteen or seventeen, it will be really too late to learn to go to education. It is like a tree that has grown crooked. How do you prune it? When a child is young, he has to teach him bit by bit. Spendsy will only harm his children and make them a low-minded child with high expectations. From now on, he must educate his children strictly. If he is wrong, he must criticize him and let him know what is wrong? Now they are only children, and some people spoil their children. They have no idea. They hold their mobile phones to play hard every day, don’t study hard, cause trouble outside, and make parents rest in peace."
Hearing this, Deputy Mayor Sun said with some shame: "Hey, this is what Sun Tao from my family is like. One day, my good friend came to visit the house. When a guest came, he kept playing with his mobile phone. He didn't know how to do anything. Now that he was so old, he still stared at me. I seemed to have raised an enemy. Secretary Jiang was right. Not allowing children to endure hardships since childhood to exercise is equivalent to raising an enemy for himself. He is seventeen years old, and when all the clothes are dirty, he still let his mother wash them in the washing machine. It seems that we should do it for him to wash and cook. When we have a mouth and open our mouths and clothes, we can reach out. Now my child is in a rebellious period, and it is becoming increasingly difficult to manage, and I am almost worried. The reason why my child is like this is what I am now is that I, a father, have a certain responsibility.
I used to ask for money to pay, but when I did something wrong, I always thought that my child would continue to protect him, but as the child got older, it became worse and worse, which was really a headache. Several times his mother said a few words to him, but he actually opened his eyes with his mother, and his temper made his mother angry and cried. My son was very poor in his studies and knew how to play games in the class, especially now when playing King of Glory, he was almost crazy. Spending money is like flowing water, and I don’t know how to care about him.”
Secretary General Yang took the conversation and said, "My son shaved his head into a yin-yang head. Everyone called him a yin-yang head. He was not only rebellious, but also cruel. One day, a cat ran in from our balcony and licked the thing he placed on the table. He actually took care of the window and beat the cat to death. When I remembered, my heart was cold. What was wrong with the child now? He had no interest in anything, he just loved to see yellow things, and advocated violence and bloody things. I am also confused now and don't know how to educate him. Sometimes I can only turn a blind eye and let it go. I no longer have the ability to care about him. I can cause trouble for me every day. I really want to send him to the detention center for a month, or to the military training for the army for a month."
"Oh, don't mention it. My child is nicknamed Xiaobian. I loved him very much since I was a child, so I left him a small braid, and it has been left until now. The school asked him to cut off the braid, so he would fight against the teacher and the class cadres. He changed his girlfriend a month and brought him home at any time. I hugged me and hugged me, and I was about to break up. What's wrong with the children now? The difference between them was too big and when we were young. Sometimes, I told my son about eating steamed buns when I was a child, but he didn't believe it at all, saying that I was making up stories to deceive him. Secretary Jiang was right. Your educational method is worth learning from, but it's too late now, what do you think you should do?"
Secretary Jiang smiled and said, "It's not too late, and it's still time to do it. Someone has helped you educate them."
"Who?" the three members of the Standing Committee of the Municipal Party Committee asked in unison.
Chapter completed!