Chapter five hundred and seventeen, teach people to pick up girls [can jump](2/2)
"He is the first student supported by the Zigong Foundation. You actually asked me who he is. He is really yours."
"Humph, the fund has funded so many students, how can I remember them all?"
Nan Yi waved his hand and said, "Okay, okay, if you don't remember, just forget it. It's a small matter."
"Nanyi, are you particularly optimistic about Yu Dongfang? That's why you pay so much attention to him and invite him to dinner?"
"Do I have to think highly of him to invite him to dinner? Can't I just make a friend?"
"Come on, you are so utilitarian. If you take the initiative to make friends, it must be helpful to the Nan family. You are optimistic about the investment value, otherwise you would not invite him to dinner."
Nan Yi chuckled and said: "For two strangers to come together and become friends, both parties must have something that the other needs. This thing can be tangible or intangible.
Mutual help in career, spiritual resonance, etc.
If your friend didn't have what you needed, would you be friends with her?"
"What if I simply admire someone, or just like to take care of her?" Liu Zhen asked.
"Isn't appreciation just some kind of spiritual resonance? When you say care, I can understand that she can't help you with anything, but you have been helping her?"
Liu Zhen thought for a moment and said, "Absolutely."
"Then think about it, why is it 'her' who is being helped instead of others? I can tell you directly, it's because you and her still resonate at a certain point, and it's because she can remind you to take care of her.
impulse.
From another perspective, she satisfies your psychological need to take care of someone, and she also contributes to you, a passively inspired contribution.
Just like the reason why you and I can get together is because we both have what the other needs.
There is no one person in this world who does not reciprocate kindness to another person. In the process of "goodness", the reward has actually been fed back, but the person involved may not realize it."
"You mean doing this will give people a kind of spiritual satisfaction?"
"Yes, that's how I understand it. When you do a good deed, you will be rewarded immediately, psychologically and spiritually."
Liu Zhen brushed her hair and said: "You made me a little messy, I have to take care of it."
Chapter completed!